I'm about to get married in a few months. I still can't believe it... seemed only yesterday when I met my first boyfriend and now he will be my husband. The past years had been the best 3 years of my life. Of course we had our shares of ups and downs - almost "break-ups", and doubts. But all these are incomparable to our firm decision to grow old together.
Actually, right now, I am trying to draft my wedding vows... but i can't seem to find the right words to express exactly what i feel. It's as if no words can ever capture the beauty of the relationship i share with my "soon-to-be-husband" and the blessing of committing to a lifetime of life and love.
I love writing... and normally, words just come out naturally for me. But at this very moment... nothing! I can't seem to capture anything into words.
If only i could just pick up lines from my favorite romantic movies or novels... but on second thought, i want mine to be a totally uniques story and no matter what happens, I will be my very own script-writer.
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Remembering a few of the well-written romantic lines from some of my favorite TV shows and "feel-good" movies:
FRIENDS:
Monica: Chandler, for so long I wondered if I would ever find my prince, my soul mate. Then three years ago, at another wedding I turned to a friend for comfort. And instead, I found everything that I’d ever been looking for my whole life. And now, here we are, with our future before us – and I only want to spend it with you, my prince, my soul mate, my friend. Unless you don’t want to. You go!
Chandler: Monica, I thought this was going to be the most difficult thing I ever had to do. But when I saw you walking down that aisle I realized how simple it was. I love you. Any surprises that come our way, it’s okay, because I will always love you. You are the person I was meant to spend the rest of my life with. You wanna know if I’m sure?
Sleepless in Seattle:
It was a million tiny little things that, when you added them all up, they meant we were suppose to be together … and I knew it. I knew it the very first time I touched her. It was like coming home … only to no home I'd ever known … I was just taking her hand to help her out of a car and I knew. It was like … magic.
Fools Rush In:
Love is a gift … not an obligation.
Lois and Clark: The New Adventures of Superman
Clark: "Lois, I have loved you from the moment I saw you. I love your humor, your passion, the way you just dive right in, even when you shouldn't. Because you refuse to just watch the world. You demand that it be a better place, and, because of you, it is. And, today, I w...ant to give you as much of the world as I can. So, I give you my heart, my soul, our future."
Lois: "Clark, you're my best friend. Until I met you, I never had a best friend. And falling in love with you has been so easy, I don't know why I fought it so long. You have such gentle grace and such quiet strength and mostly such incredible kindness. I've never known anyone with as pure a heart, and, so, today, I give you my love, and my honor and our life together."I grew up watching a lot of romantic shows and I'm a sucker for "cheesy" lines... it simply never fails to melt my heart.
Lois: "Clark, you're my best friend. Until I met you, I never had a best friend. And falling in love with you has been so easy, I don't know why I fought it so long. You have such gentle grace and such quiet strength and mostly such incredible kindness. I've never known anyone with as pure a heart, and, so, today, I give you my love, and my honor and our life together."I grew up watching a lot of romantic shows and I'm a sucker for "cheesy" lines... it simply never fails to melt my heart.
(originally written in August 2004)